I need a home where me and my family can be together again

My husband was in prison for one year to try and get free of the probation system and get off drugs, at the time of his arrest we had just received an eviction notice.  I was not working enough and he was not getting paid by his private employer.  Therefore, I became homeless.  Late in the summer I finally got a hotel room my son and I could afford to live in as I worked thre jobs, never getting to see him.  Then, I met somebody who I thought just wanted to help me because they saw how hard I was trying to make it work.  I was wrong.  This person beat me, threatened to kill me, held  me at gunpoint, and as a result I lost my job, my home, my car, and temporarily, my son and husband.  My son is back with me now, but we live apart from my husband who tries to see us often.  Trying to work for both of us and keep a positive family relationship is not easy, and is taking obvious tolls on our family.  So, basically what I need is a loan or ideally a grant(I don't expect to get anything for free, I found the hard way it doesn't happen) so that my family and I can have a home of our own that as long as we pay our bills it cannot be taken from us!!